Sunday, September 20, 2009
to be beautiful
i am at the ocean. i'm watching the waves slam into the sand as i write this. the sea is reflecting the sun as shimmers of light. there is a steady rhythm that hypnotizes me, but awakens me at the same time. it awakens an ancient part of me. the part that is the most primal stretches out in the base of my neck and remembers. i may not know why the caged bird sings, but i do know why the fish out of water gasps.
yesterday, paddling out on my board, the waves would rise up right in front of me, the light would pierce the mystery of the wave, and schools of fish were shown to me. dozens, hundreds of little fish were surfing the waves. early this morning, earlier than i can wake up in my landlocked life, the waves were crashing far off shore. there were dolphin. they were leaping out of the water, flipping, splashing. then they were SURGING through the water, then they were one with the waves. five, six at a time riding through the wave. the wave would fill up, reach forward to the shore, and in its bulk were a half dozen dolphin actually surfing.
two nights ago, i lay in bed feeling the numbness of too much fatigue and too much sadness. my nerves were so overcharged from those two stressors, that i felt nothing. the tall man mentioned my sister being gone and the switch was flipped. the tears poured down into the pockets of my ears. my ears filled with the sadness and it leaked out onto the pillow. i could feel him caressing my arm as if in a faraway place and could barely hear anything over my sobs. when i was calm enough to speak again, he asked me what it was that i needed. what i needed. what i needed.
when i saw the fish rising up as a unit, the dolphin playing like children in the waves, i knew what i needed. what i need is to be in my environment with people that i love.
now i am here. salt crystals are flaking on my skin. the tall man and the medium boy are here. i try not to focus on my sister who is missing from here. i know that she is present in a dry place near the rio grande. i do believe in blossoming where one is planted. reach always for the sun and dig your roots deep. but, it's decidedly harder to bloom in ground that is not ideal. blue-green saltwater on my skin, sand between my toes, sun on my neck warming my reptilian brain, and the rhythm of the water is where i open up most easily. my limbs stretch out in every direction seeking out the sun. my colors deepen to their most vibrant. i am as beautiful as nature intended me to be.