i am known for having eyes much larger than my stomach. it seems that i can never really tell how large anything really is. taking on fifteen projects at once, piling my plate higher than a legos tower, thinking that an hour is plenty of time to run 5 errands, all in different areas of town (on my bike), and that raising a child just means feeding them once in a while is my m.o. of course, it works the other way with myself. i think i'm ginormous. i always experience a moment of shock when i see myself in group pictures and i'm SO SHORT! SO TINY!
all this to explain that when i "adopted" (returned) to the primal lifestyle, i jumped in with both bare feet. and not everything stuck. in a panicked effort to organize (control) all that, i regimented it. that's when it really fell apart. once i attach a "should" to anything, my extremely vocal inner child throws a tantrum and my inner revolutionary, well, revolts.
should is, to me, one of the dirtiest words in the english language. i cringe when i hear it and want to cover my burning ears (EARMUFFS!). it also seems to be one of the heaviest. throw it into any sentence and the should side drops down with such a hard thud that it's hard to hear the rest of the words.
of course, i have a much more developed rebel inside me than most. but it can be very difficult when the one i rebel against is myself, the task piler.
so, i've simply distracted the part of me that needs projects. i'm buying (BUYING! holy crapola batman!) a new cave today. so the project princess will be well taken care of for quite a while.
but what am i going to do about the rest of me that doesn't give a should? i remember when i started this whole thing in july, that one of the things that i wanted to do was to play outside every day with my son. i haven't done that since coming back to the states. play has given way to regimented exercise, standard american eating habits, lack of sleep, and a loss of community.
no wonder i feel like should.
so, i'm bringing play back as my first priority. i'm not going to lay down any ground rules, i'm just going to find fun again.